So, I was reading an inspirational book- yes, I do read those ones too- titled TOUGH TIMES DON'T LAST BUT TOUGH PEOPLE DO by an author whose name I hope somebody knows, and I came across a really good text that I hope to drop here and pray to the heavens it helps a soul... Continue Reading →



I cant write. I cant tell this story. I cant explain in a simple, silly yet justified way. I cant get my thoughts to form the words I really want to say. Whoever said women can speak a thousand words per minute should be brought before a jury of peers and support his theory- if... Continue Reading →

Nooo! This isn’t a recap of the American Horror Story. Mine is a sweet romantic story made up of sugar, spice, wine and everything nice you can think of…with a dash of lemon and the devil’s piss. My story is about those itches in our lives we would give a hair to get rid of,... Continue Reading →


MaCandy Insights.

Last week on Tuesday, the 1st day of December 2015, I received my worst call this Year.

My Brother-in-law, who seemed to be in perfect health, had passed on, on the night of Sunday the 29th of November.  And was now at the morgue. We buried him on Friday the 4th. Rest in Peace,  Bro William!

What bad news to start a New Month. The month of Christmas!

To say the past one and half  weeks have been challenging is an understatement.

I was charged with the responsibility of breaking the news to his beloved 10 year-old daughter and give her a shoulder to lean on. Speak words of encouragement. And his beloved adolescent son. Further, after the burial to be with the wife. My sister.

I was with them five days,  such a young family, coping, but they still got quite a road in front of them to believe…

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I was only eight years old when my gramps summoned me in the living room way past my bedtime for a little chat. Why am I making this a really big deal? My pops was a military man. Theoretically that is, since he wasn’t marching or leading any battalions out to war and most definitely... Continue Reading →


I let them tear you apart and I just kept looking on. Like a pack of wolves on a tiny limb they tore you limb by limb. I could have saved you but my act of compassion would have been mistaken for weakness-I was the alpha and epitome of sheer greatness. I wasn't going to... Continue Reading →


If someone should hurt you or say a word unkind,,,remember what I write you and keep these thoughts in mind. For everyone who makes you cry, there is one to make you smile,,,and a smile will last for a long long time but a tear will just last a while. Do not let someone who... Continue Reading →


There is this man, Well, I cannot call him a lad cuz He doesn't clad in the latest fad. He ain't all glamour and glitz like those barbie doll girls we all love to hate- the blitz. Funny He don't open doors or pull out seats for ladies in restaurants but He's one fine, kind... Continue Reading →

Apology Statement..

dear loves of mine, Am really sorry for the long silence and absence in sharing and expressing vocal art with you all...believe me I always relish time spent with you. I have been busy with my exams and work but once am much settled and sorted out, we will pick up from where we left... Continue Reading →

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